Do The Wrong Thing Pt. III: Give and Take

"Show me a beautiful woman, and I'll show you a man who's tired of fuckin' her."
-- Sidewalks of New York

Earlier on, I said that I blame women for at least 51% of the big problem. That leaves a little bit of explaining to do on the behalf of my people. The male people.

As men, we are naturally pretty helpless when it comes to temptations of the flesh. Women know this, and surely not a second goes by on this planet without a woman taking full advantage of this knowledge to her own benefit. Women use sex to leverage themselves into all types of free meals, goody-bags, jewelry, jobs, relationships and pretty much whatever else they desire that a man could possibly provide. I can't say that I blame them, for if I could use sex as bait to flirt or fuck my unemployed self into a better situation, maybe I would. I like to claim nobility, but lets be realistic, it's just easier to scam. But heres the thing, like it or not, even scamming women are only working within the natural framework of things.

By nature, men are the providers, and women are essentially the caretakers. Sometimes, men being men, we have to be fooled (or harassed) into doing the jobs that need to be done. This is part of the reason sex is so powerful, it has to be. So as a man, I can't fully blame women for using it to its full potential. But just like men, sometimes certain women take things too far.
It was only once we became free from such day-to-day concerns as finding food and shelter that we were able to spend our time pursuing other, less vital interests. For some people, those interests are material. Hence, your modern Freak-Hoe Gold-Digger Broad.

The Freak-Ho Gold-Digger Broad is perhaps the simplest form of human being in existence today. A parasite of sorts on the hide of modern humanity. It's goal is singular, obtain as much of whatever it seeks. The vehicle, sex. Be it actual commission of the act, or merely the tease.

But don't be fooled, for it's not Freak-hoe's fault, it's really her suitors who are to blame. Sure, the most successful of Freak-hoes may often possess many of the appearance qualities prized by the superficial male sex-drive, but not always. I've seen some mediocre looking hoe's driving cars they surely can't afford on their waitress tips, with no rings on their fingers, so it's not her husband's car she's driving. Nope, it's just some guy. Some guy who probably does have a wife, whom he has just grown sexually bored with. And why is that? That brings us back to the free lottery ticket theory. Or more specifically, it's like the second law of thermodynamics paraphrased: sooner or later anything that can go wrong will.

Everything in nature has a tendency to revert to its lowest energy state. In terms of a man's approach to sex, that means doing whatever is easiest. And it's quite simply just easier to bang a loose woman that it is to actually do it the way it should be done. Some may ask, why does a married man go to other women for sex to begin with? Without trying to excuse the behavior, I think it's most properly analyzed from the other side. Why are women often attracted to unavailable men?

My theory on this is quite simple. Men choose women based largely on their appearance because we are naturally driven to select mates who look young and healthy and capable of bearing offspring. As men don't bear children, these consideration don't require quite as much emphasis to serve the female selector's purposes. Instead, women naturally select a man with the necessary resources to provide for her and their potential offspring. This is why it's more common to see older men with younger women than it is to see the opposite.

A man probably reaches his peak "value" later on in life once he has established himself financially and otherwise. In it's barest sense a womans peak is defined by her physical health and suitability for procreation, which happens earlier on. So young women arguably have a naturally guided inclination towards older men because those are the ones who have the most to offer them. But now we fan the flames of desire by adding in the social element. A man who is married is already in effect wearing the badge of the suitability of his resources and ability to provide, as already judged and attested to by another women with the same criteria for selection, his wife. So basically, a young home-wrecker is doing little more than following the map her self-interested, pre-programmed brain stem has charted out for her, only in this case she's found a short-cut.

A woman's evaluation of a man's suitability if done properly is slightly more invasive and time consuming than a man's (which can generally be done with a simple glancing over.) Since they have a more comprehensive review to undertake, it saves them valuable time if they can find a shortcut. In this case just piggybacking off of another woman's due diligence, and taking her word for it. Her word which is demonstrated by her selection of him.

Our older man is doing much the same, only now he has little if any interest in her suitability for bearing offspring, just in using her young healthy body which is so much more suitable for his primitive sexual purposes than his withering wife.

Sure Gold-Digger Freak-hoe Home-wrecker is acting selfishly and messing up the whole system, but she's only allowed to do so because Mr. Tired-of-the-Same-old-Ass can't control his outdated impulses. And he's not alone.